Karla Thomas says her son, Legend, has been catching up since day one. Born two months premature and weighing just over four pounds, Legend spent a month in the neonatal intensive care unit before Thomas was able to take him home.
“He was so small and underdeveloped,” Thomas said. “He couldn’t eat on his own. I had to teach him. He couldn’t suck, swallow and breathe at the same time. In the beginning he was being fed through a tube in his nose, and slowly we taught him how to be able to suck a bottle and swallow and breathe at the same time. By the time he left the hospital, we had taught him how to eat properly. He gained enough weight that he ended up weighing five pounds the day he left the hospital.”
Thomas wasn’t anticipating the challenges of a newborn who was born prematurely, but her adult daughter did. She signed up Legend and her mother with the Easterseals Blake Foundation home visitation program.
The First Things First Yuma Regional Council funds the program that provides personalized support that includes practical, hands-on activities and techniques that prompt early learning, knowledge and understanding of important developmental milestones.
“Once he came home, everyone from doctors and Easterseals were definitely watching closely to ensure he continued on the positive path,” Thomas said.
The home visitor from Easterseals Blake, Teri, has been a strong support, she said. At first the visits were weekly and the COVID-19 pandemic forced visits to be virtual.
“They’ve visited us since day one. They have been checking his vision, hearing, weight and growing pattern. Making sure that he is within normal range for a child of his age. Reassuring he is doing well and constantly checking cognitive and physical abilities.”
Every week, Teri encouraged Thomas to read books to Legend on a regular basis and have back and forth conversations with him.
“She told me to repeat what he says to encourage his talking and grow his vocabulary,” Thomas said. Recently Legend’s vocabulary exploded.
“Within the last three months, he began speaking four- to five-word sentences, using descriptive and advanced words. He’s able to tell me where he wants to go and what he wants to eat. He’s able to fully communicate with me,” said Karla Thomas.
At some visits, Teri would suggest finger painting and ways to create puzzles out of household items or fill a plastic bottle with rice and beans and use it as a rattle.
“These were things that anyone can do,” Thomas said. “She goes over ‘this is where we should be’ and any time I bring up a concern, we go over it in our next session. She helps with research and provides suggestions. She’s amazing. Another thing that she does is she sets goals and revisits to see progress. It gives me something to shoot for and focus on what Legend should be working on.”
Now at age 3, Legend runs to the door and shouts, “Teri is here!” when she arrives. Recently, the home visitor recommended Legend attend a child care center for more social interaction with other children and Thomas also returned to work.
“At this point he is starting to be able to be with children and he loves kids,” Thomas said. “I look forward to him growing socially as well as everything else. We are at the stage where he’s learning to share and that is a challenge because he hasn’t been able to be around other children. While I love that he knows that I am his support and he comes to me for all of his needs, I want him to continue to be a little independent and I’m sure that will come with time.”
Today Legend is a healthy and loving boy.
“He is 3-years-old and into everything. He’s finding new things and creating new things. He is going to get through it and be able to meet his milestones,” Thomas said. “Through the support of the people around me he is able to be at a 3-year-old level or beyond. His name is Legend and I personally feel that he lives up to that name because of where he has been through and where he is at this point.”