The holidays can bring a lot of joy, and sometimes pressure to buy the “perfect” gift. But the truth is, some of the most meaningful gifts you can give your child don’t cost anything at all. What young children want the most is you—your time, your attention and those everyday moments that help them feel loved and fuel their growing brains.
The gift of your time
One-on-one time is the foundation of early connection and healthy development. A few minutes of reading, singing, cuddling or talking with your child each day makes a big difference. This works at every age:
- Babies: tummy time, snuggles, simple songs
- Toddlers: playtime, naming what you see and do together
- Preschoolers: conversations, simple games, helping you with daily tasks (TIP: make it fun and silly!)
The gift of play
This can happen with things you already have at home! You don’t need special toys to spark curiosity, and even pediatricians say simple toys are best. Everyday household items can lead to hours of fun!
The gift of creativity
Recycled materials make great art supplies and encourage open-ended play, and make for great no-cost gifts. Paper scraps, cardboard tubes (again, the paper towel roll always wins), boxes, catalogs, lids and empty containers can become masterpieces and hours of fun in little hands.
PBS Arizona’s Craftivity videos for kids are a great place to start if you need ideas for your preschooler.
TIP: Try creating an “invention box” with tape, crayons, paper and other safe odds and ends. Let your child build, draw and imagine freely—you may be surprised by what they dream up!
The gift of movement
Young children learn through movement, and it can be fun for the whole family!
- Infants: Revisit tummy time and try supported sitting, if age appropriate.
- Toddlers and preschoolers: Help them get their wiggles out through activities that encourage motor skill development.
The gift of routine and togetherness
Everyday tasks can become meaningful moments. Involving children in routines like setting the table, cooking or sorting laundry helps build independence, early math and language skills—all while bringing calm to a busy season.
Lastly, the gift of stories
Sharing stories is a powerful and no-cost way to build language and connection. Tell your child stories about your own childhood, family traditions or even what they were like as a baby.
- Infants: Any story in your voice is perfect.
- Toddlers and preschoolers: Try making up silly stories together and taking turns adding details.
The best gifts are the simple ones
The most lasting gifts you can give this holiday season are connection, play and shared moments. These no-cost gifts support your child’s learning and strengthen your bond—not just during the holidays, but all year long.
Want even more inspiration? Explore the First Things First Gift Guide.
