
Keeping your child safe is your top priority — which is why car seat safety can feel so overwhelming. From the first ride home from the hospital to wondering when it’s time to turn the seat forward, many parents find themselves asking, “Am I doing this right?”
You’re reading the manual, sweating while tightening the straps, making sure there’s no wiggle — and still second-guessing yourself. Take comfort that other parents are out there second-guessing too. With the right information and support, you can feel more confident buckling in your little one.
First off, why are there so many choices?!
For many parents, the stress around car seat safety begins before baby is even born. Looking at car seats in-store or online can feel overwhelming. There are infant seats, convertible seats and 3-in-1s — offered by many brands and at different prices. It’s a lot to sort through, especially for new parents.
The good news? All infant car seats sold in the United States must meet standards established by the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA). If you’ve secured a hand-me-down car seat, keep reading for tips on how to make sure it’s safe to use.
A few simple steps can make a big difference.
There’s a lot to think about, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Use these tools from the NHTSA to help you feel more confident and prepared — whether you’re getting ready for your first ride or double-checking your setup as your child grows.
Choose the right car seat: Make sure the seat fits your child’s age, weight and height as well as your vehicle.
If it’s secondhand, take caution: There are extra steps needed to ensure your child’s car seat is safe if it’s been used.
Install it properly: Follow your seat and vehicle manuals closely and don’t be afraid to start over if needed.
Get it inspected after install: Find a certified technician, or visit your local fire department to check that it’s installed correctly.
Register for recall alerts: This helps you stay informed about recalls or safety updates from the manufacturer.
Pro tip: Share this checklist and other car safety resources (like this article) with family members and friends who drive your child or have children themselves!
You’re doing your best for your child’s safety, and that matters.
Car seats are a journey, and all parents feel uncertain sometimes. By staying informed, asking questions and making thoughtful decisions, you’re doing what’s best for your child.
When you have questions, the Birth to Five Helpline, funded by First Things First, offers free support from early childhood experts. You can call, text or email with any parenting question — including car seat safety.
At the end of the day, trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel (or look) right with your child’s car seat, it’s always OK to reach out for help. And remember, you don’t have to figure it out all on your own.