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Parenting young children in the age of artificial intelligence

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Today’s babies are born into homes with voice assistants, smart devices and personalized apps. Technology that once felt new is now a part of everyday life.

Artificial intelligence, or AI, is often talked about as future technology. But many families already use it every day. It helps decide what shows we see on streaming services. It powers voice assistants that answer questions. It also helps search engines, like Google, find information.

Even with these advances, one thing has not changed: young children learn best through connection, conversation and play. 

Parents do not need to be tech experts to raise healthy, curious kids. What matters most is quality time, talking together and helping them explore the world around them.

What is artificial intelligence (AI)?

AI is technology that learns from information and helps computers make decisions. Many common tools use AI, including:

  • Streaming services recommending shows or music
  • Voice assistants answering questions
  • Chatbots helping answer customer service questions
  • Translation tools that convert speech or text between languages

These tools are designed to make everyday tasks easier. For adults, they can save time and provide helpful support. 

But young children’s development still depends on something much simpler: responsive relationships with caring adults.

Early childhood development still follows the same science

By age five, about 90% of a child’s brain development has already happened. This period lays the foundation for early learning, behavior and health throughout life.

Children learn through everyday connections with caring adults. One key process is called serve-and-return. A baby might point or babble, and an adult responds. This back-and-forth interaction helps build brain connections and supports language development.

They also learn how to manage emotions with support from adults. For instance, when a caregiver comforts a child and helps them calm down, the child will begin to learn that skill on their own.

Technology cannot replace these human interactions.

Ways AI may support families

It’s no secret that many parents and caregivers are stretched thin—and AI tools can be helpful and supportive when used thoughtfully.

For example, AI-powered tools may help:

  • Translate languages for multilingual families
  • Provide speech-to-text or reading support for children who need communication support
  • Suggest simple play ideas using everyday household materials

Risks families should keep in mind

At the same time, it’s important to think carefully about how technology is used around young children. Things to watch for include:

  • Too much passive screen time
  • Less face-to-face interaction
  • Using screens too often to calm or distract children
  • Privacy concerns related to personal information
  • Expecting instant answers instead of learning through practice

What young children need most

No matter how technology changes, young children still benefit from:

  • Unstructured play
  • Time to explore
  • Active movement
  • Hands-on sensory experiences
  • Reading and storytelling together
  • Emotional connection and engaged caregivers
  • Even a little boredom can spark creativity and problem-solving.

These experiences help children build strong brains and strong relationships.

A few simple tech reminders for families

Families can keep a healthy balance by remembering to:

  • Use AI as a tool, not a replacement for interaction

  • Co-engage with children if they are using digital tools

  • Prioritize conversation and connection

  • Protect time for play and exploration

  • Model healthy technology habits, including putting devices away during family time.

The most important connection is still you

In conclusion, artificial intelligence will likely continue to shape the world our children grow up in. But the most powerful influence in a child’s life is still their relationship with caring adults. 

When parents and caregivers support early learning, language and emotional health, they help children grow strong and ready for the future. 

Because in every generation, the most important thing a child can experience is a caring human connection.

 

 

Haley Wagner is the director of marketing at First Things First. You can reach her at hwagner@FirstThingsFirst.org

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