Potty training is a big step for your toddler — and for you. It’s one of those milestones that comes with lots of questions. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. You don’t need to rush it. Just like learning to walk or talk, every child is on their own timeline.

Is My Child Ready for Potty Training?

Successful potty training depends more on physical, developmental and behavioral readiness than age. Many children start showing signs of readiness between 18 and 24 months, while others may not be ready until around age 3. 

• Awareness of bodily functions. Your child recognizes the urge to pee or poop and may seek privacy or vocalize when they need to go. 
• Physical independence. They can walk to the bathroom on their own, help undress themselves and show willingness to sit on the potty. 
• Interest in the potty. Your little one is curious about potty use, including observing your bathroom habits or trying to play around the toilet.

Try not to compare your progress with peers—every child will have a unique pace and experience with potty training. Some may quickly learn to urinate in the potty, but take longer to have bowel movements, while others may hide their bowel movements or feel upset when flushing. 

Keep It Positive and Low Pressure

The most important part of potty training is you! As a parent or caregiver, focus on a low-pressure approach and expect accidents and setbacks. Don’t force or punish your little one—just like any other skill, they need time and encouragement to learn how to use the potty.

Potty Training at Night

Nighttime bladder control can take some time—it may not occur for months or even years after daytime potty training is complete. According to the AAP, forty percent of children in the United States continue to wet the bed while sleeping after they have been fully daytime-trained. It’s developmentally normal, so consider using overnight diapers or training pants until your child can wake up to use the bathroom independently. 

Potty Training and Child Care

It’s a good idea to talk to your child’s preschool or child care provider about their potty training policies. Ask questions like:

• Is there a kid-friendly toilet nearby?
• How do they keep the area clean?
• Who does my child ask when they need to go?

If your child is already using the potty at home, let their teacher or caregiver know their routine or signal (like: “Tell Ms. B if you need to go pee or poop.”). Consistency helps!