{"id":55653,"date":"2024-10-03T22:15:46","date_gmt":"2024-10-03T22:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/?post_type=first-things&#038;p=55653"},"modified":"2026-02-04T23:30:23","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T23:30:23","slug":"sharing-and-playtime","status":"publish","type":"first-things","link":"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/es\/first-things\/sharing-and-playtime\/","title":{"rendered":"Developing a child\u2019s social skills through playtime"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing is an important social skill young children need to learn, but it can be one of the most challenging. Understanding the difference between sharing and taking turns is key to helping your child navigate these early learning stages.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\">What is Sharing<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oftentimes, when parents want their child to share, they really mean they want their child to take turns. But that\u2019s a slightly different concept.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sharing involves giving some of something to another person, like asking your child to give some of their snacks to their sibling. Taking turns, on the other hand, means giving something away completely for a period of time. Both of these skills can be challenging for young children, especially toddlers, as it is developmentally normal for them to be self-focused.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learning to share requires a child to recognize not only their feelings but also the feelings of others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Child development experts say this empathetic awareness typically develops around ages 3 or 4, though some children may take longer to fully grasp the concept and learn how to share.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Nxve42WiUi4?si=8hSrjYn2WwuXtYzb\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\">Understand Your Child&#8217;s Capabilities<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Having realistic expectations for what your child can do at their age is essential. \u201cAs parents and as a society, we often want things from our children that they are not capable of doing,\u201d said Willard. \u201cWe need to remember that, relatively speaking, they just got here on our earth and have only been learning about the way our world works for a very brief period of time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If your 2-year-old gets upset when asked to share a toy, know this is developmentally appropriate. At this stage, toddlers are learning the concept of ownership\u2014that the toy is theirs!<\/p>\n<p>Sharing is a complex skill that develops over time. Your love, support and patience can help your child through this process.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\">Tips to Help Your Child<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0072bc;\">Use the phrase \u201ctake turns\u201d and explain what is happening.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This might sound like, \u201cRomelo, we are going to take turns with Sophie. You\u2019re playing with the car right now, and then it will be Sophie\u2019s turn to play with it for a while. Then, it will be your turn again.\u201d Narrating the situation helps your child understand the process and prepare for it.<\/p>\n<p>Daniel Tiger&#8217;s Sharing Strategy Song<\/p>\n<p>Daniel\u00a0and his friends sing a\u00a0song\u00a0about how it&#8217;s more fun when \u201cyou can\u00a0share\u00a0with me, and I can\u00a0share\u00a0with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sing along<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #0072bc;\"><strong>Stay neutral during disputes.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When sibling or friend rivalry kicks in, resist the urge to rush in and break things up. Before jumping in, let them try to work it out on their own\u2014it helps develop essential social skills.<\/p>\n<p>Dealing with frustration, disappointment, or anger during disagreements helps children learn to control their emotions. Over time, this can improve their ability to handle tough feelings.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #0072bc;\"><strong>Organize play dates<\/strong>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Playtime offers plenty of chances to practice sharing and turn-taking. Praise their efforts, as positive reinforcement encourages the repetition of good behaviors. For example, you can say, &#8220;I noticed how you used your words to tell your friend how you felt, and that was really kind of you!&#8221; or &#8220;You did a great job waiting for your turn to talk and listening to your friend!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Remember, struggling with sharing is developmentally appropriate for young children. Try to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/first-things\/positive-parenting-see-things-through-their-eyes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">see things through their eyes.<\/a> Developing these essential skills takes time, repetition and your support.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Learn the developmental stages of sharing and turn-taking and how to support social-emotional skills through play.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":71,"featured_media":56000,"template":"","tags":[73,471],"class_list":["post-55653","first-things","type-first-things","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-social-emotional-development","tag-sharing"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.1 (Yoast SEO v27.1.1) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Developing a child\u2019s social skills through playtime - First Things First<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Learn the developmental stages of sharing and turn-taking and how to support social-emotional skills through play.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/es\/first-things\/sharing-and-playtime\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Developing a child\u2019s social skills through playtime\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Learn the developmental stages of sharing and turn-taking and how to support social-emotional skills through play.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/es\/first-things\/sharing-and-playtime\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"First Things First\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/AZFirstThingsFirst\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2026-02-04T23:30:23+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/playtime-social-skills-1300x681.png\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1300\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"681\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/png\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@AZFTF\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Tiempo de lectura\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"6 minutos\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/es\/first-things\/sharing-and-playtime\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.firstthingsfirst.org\/es\/first-things\/sharing-and-playtime\/\",\"name\":\"Developing a child\u2019s social skills through playtime - 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